Alright most of you may find it natural and normal but I find it stupid.
Not to say that I dont do it but I want to know the point.
What I am tryin to say is......... I HATE WHEN A GUY IS EXPECTED TO PAY FOR GIRLS!
Alright I posted about being nice and being a gentleman but say too much of a
good thing can be a bad thing. Not sayin that I have a LOT of personal experience
payin for girls when I am out. Thing is most girls this days when a guy ask a girl
out for a date or as a friend they EXPECT the guy to pay for everything! Movies to
food to whatever it is.
I dont mind payin but I hate it when a girl EXPECT us to pay.
It will be WRONG! If guy say hey I'll pay for the food and the girl goes like OK.
Why not try this
Girl goes like come on its ok I'll pay on my own and pull her wallet out. Then the guy be like no its my pleasure and girl goes like ok but next time it will be my treat ya. I like when a girl put effort to pay then just sits on her ass and acts like a freaking queen. OR it will be cool if it goes like I pay for the food and girl pays for the movies of something rite? Now that is both parties being nice! Everyone is happy 50 50, fair fair you know?
I don’t care call me cheap for thinking that way but who is the cheap one expecting
guys to pay for ya’ll. Now that is just sexiest!
Another thing, what I get for payin you?
I rather go to the movies with my buddies rite? Now to say like if I pay for everything
I am getting “lucky” at the end of the day rite? Just like you expects guys to pay just being a guy I expect $E*! That is wrong rite? Sounds like a pervert rite? So what do it
sounds like when you expect guys to pay? GOLD DIGGER!
I also KINDA blame the media for this like the song that I really really hate!
Yes the Avril song “The best damn thing” let me quote the lyrics for ya.
“ I hate it when a guy doesn't get the door
Even when I told him
yesterday and the day before
I hate it when a guy doesn't get the tab
And I have to pull my money
out and that looks bad yeah ”
When I listen to that song I’ll be yea! You are the best damn WHORE I’ve ever seen!
I use to like you when you think its “so complicated” and when you go like I can be
your “girlfriend”! Well now thank god you are not! DAMN!
The lyrics of a song make girls thing that it is only natural for guys to pay.
Well I don’t want to say much I let my fav old school band to sing it for ya!
Let me present “The Offspring” with their song "why dont you get a job?"
Listen to their lyrics carefully! =]
PS: I didnt post this cz my girl wants me to pay for stuff.
Nothing personal to me just seen many ppl doing it will they go broke.
Till payin becomes an issue that they are scared to date.
Not sayin it a crime or sin... just sayin dont over do it.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Dare You To MOVE!!
Hey ya'll!
Well its very late now but I just got to update!
I was going around YouTube and I just watch this amazing video!
It really lift my spirits up.
It's a animated video with the song "Dare you to move" by Switchfoot.
The video is a guy who changes his life by a dare.
"He moved and he moved millions"
When one person can show another what can be achieved by moving
on their lives to do great things it pass on the other and soon millions.
Watch, Understand, MOVE…
(Credits goes to the owner of the vid)
Another video which is as inspiring is a video showing that
A lot of great people failed before they became great.
“If you never fail you never lived”
Falling down don’t make you a loser, what makes you a loser is when you don’t get up. So pick your self up learn from your mistakes and make great thing
happen. You only get to life ones so what is life with out risk and by risk I
mean the risk that putting your self to work for what you want not gambling.
So people I hope you understand the message… so I DARE YOU MOVE! =]
Well its very late now but I just got to update!
I was going around YouTube and I just watch this amazing video!
It really lift my spirits up.
It's a animated video with the song "Dare you to move" by Switchfoot.
The video is a guy who changes his life by a dare.
"He moved and he moved millions"
When one person can show another what can be achieved by moving
on their lives to do great things it pass on the other and soon millions.
Watch, Understand, MOVE…
(Credits goes to the owner of the vid)
Another video which is as inspiring is a video showing that
A lot of great people failed before they became great.
“If you never fail you never lived”
Falling down don’t make you a loser, what makes you a loser is when you don’t get up. So pick your self up learn from your mistakes and make great thing
happen. You only get to life ones so what is life with out risk and by risk I
mean the risk that putting your self to work for what you want not gambling.
So people I hope you understand the message… so I DARE YOU MOVE! =]
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Where the nice people at?
Alright I want to post about something that has been on my mind for years now. It’s a question of hope nice people really is. I found out that majority of people men or women are not. I don’t want to give you the impression that people today are rude but they are just not that nice and friendly.
Let me start of by touching on strangers we see everyday of our lives. When you walk in to the mall or just walking down the street. You will realized that people just mind their own business if not then you are one of them. My theory is in everybody’s mind they are thinking why should I bother they never smile or say hi to me or anything. What if I smile at the wrong person I could get beat up.
So one day I tried an experiment and I went to Queen’s bay mall and try to find out how many people are actually friendly enough to at least smile back at you when you say hi to them first. I when to all the floors and say hi to random people of all race, gender and age. Most of the reaction I got was a no reaction or just give you a stare with no smile on their faces. People just walk pass by even they are greeted. Well at least 4 or 5 people smile and 3 people actually say hi back.
Ok so maybe the hi to strangers was rather strange so I tried this on the new years. I stand at my house’s balcony and I see lots of people walk back from the new year’s day celebration. So I think hey why not wish every body who pass by ‘HAPPY NEW YEAR!”. Guess what I tried to 11 people I count a group of people who walk together as one. I was only happy with 1 and only 1 group of who seems to me to be college or university students, they actually stop and go “ WOOOO! THANK YOU! YOU HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR TOO! GOOD NIGHT!”. The rest of the 10 were just walking and thinking I was a weirdo.
So you see people me being nice = me being a weirdo. Why? Because to them it rare that people do that and it seems weird and strange. Well I challenge all of you to be more friendly and nice to greet people that you see. If more people start being nice then it wont seem like a weird thing to do rite? So why not? Take it, take that chance to try to be nice to everyone you see. Then the would be a nicer place to live in FOR YOU AND FOR ME! =]
Here is a video edit of the perfect song for this post and an advert which I want to show ya'll
Song: Together by Krystal Meyers (Check her out and listen to the full length of the song.)
Advert: Liberty Mutual Insurance
Edited by: alsuarez
Let me start of by touching on strangers we see everyday of our lives. When you walk in to the mall or just walking down the street. You will realized that people just mind their own business if not then you are one of them. My theory is in everybody’s mind they are thinking why should I bother they never smile or say hi to me or anything. What if I smile at the wrong person I could get beat up.
So one day I tried an experiment and I went to Queen’s bay mall and try to find out how many people are actually friendly enough to at least smile back at you when you say hi to them first. I when to all the floors and say hi to random people of all race, gender and age. Most of the reaction I got was a no reaction or just give you a stare with no smile on their faces. People just walk pass by even they are greeted. Well at least 4 or 5 people smile and 3 people actually say hi back.
Ok so maybe the hi to strangers was rather strange so I tried this on the new years. I stand at my house’s balcony and I see lots of people walk back from the new year’s day celebration. So I think hey why not wish every body who pass by ‘HAPPY NEW YEAR!”. Guess what I tried to 11 people I count a group of people who walk together as one. I was only happy with 1 and only 1 group of who seems to me to be college or university students, they actually stop and go “ WOOOO! THANK YOU! YOU HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR TOO! GOOD NIGHT!”. The rest of the 10 were just walking and thinking I was a weirdo.
So you see people me being nice = me being a weirdo. Why? Because to them it rare that people do that and it seems weird and strange. Well I challenge all of you to be more friendly and nice to greet people that you see. If more people start being nice then it wont seem like a weird thing to do rite? So why not? Take it, take that chance to try to be nice to everyone you see. Then the would be a nicer place to live in FOR YOU AND FOR ME! =]
Here is a video edit of the perfect song for this post and an advert which I want to show ya'll
Song: Together by Krystal Meyers (Check her out and listen to the full length of the song.)
Advert: Liberty Mutual Insurance
Edited by: alsuarez
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